Will Hitting Children Scar Them For Life?

Many parents rely on physical punishments to achieve teaching children acceptable behaviours. Most of these parents do not intend to harm their children when using corporal punishment but is of the view that this is a more effective disciplinary strategy. Corporal punishment incorporates all forms of physical punishment and is generally viewed as physical abuse if done in extremes. It comprises slapping, pulling pinching, hitting, twisting arms, hitting with objects, and forcing children to eat or drink unpleasant ingredients. Corporal punishment violates the rights of children in relation to their physical (bodily) integrity and human dignity (sense of self-respect/self-worth).

The truth about corporal punishment is that it is usually more harmful than useful. Corporal punishment works short term and can cause problem behaviours to become worst. It leads to rebellion and aggression. It affects parent/child relations, causes children to run away from home, low self-esteem, and suicide ideation. It creates a cycle of violence where children who experience such, model the same behaviour when they become parents.

Instead of using corporal punishment begin to reason with your child - communication is key to child development. Use time out procedures and take away privileges. Let your child take responsibility for their actions such as apologizing for their wrongs and making restitution.